The article "A Free Agent's Mentor-Mentee Relationship -- What Are the Rules and Where Can I Find One" talks about entrepreneurialism, it was released by Chris King.
Most business books and magazines sing the virtues of having or benig a mentor.
Even though we know how valuable a mentor can be to our success, we discover that finding the right fit is not always simple. In this article, I discuss the ins and outs.It is important that the mentor-mentee relationship is satisfying to both people invovled.
If you find someone you would like to have as a mentor, ask him or her if they are willing.
If they back out gracefully, or just say, "No," accept the answer graciously and witohut devastation.
If you become a mentee, make sure that you know the ground rules - what you both expect from the relationship. If your menotr suggests that you make certain changes to push yourself to a new level, will you be willing to follow those suggestions?
Being a mentor can be satisfying and exhilarating as long as you believe that your mentee is giving it his or her "all."
If, however, you begin to believe drained and/or manipulated, it is time to bow out. I recently became involved in a mentor-mentee situation where the young guy I was meeting with on a regular basis gave me the impression that he was "using" my talents, abilities and knowledge to advance his career rather than trying to develop his own talents, abilities and knowledge.
I believe strongly that as long as both of you believe that your relationship is beneficial, keep it up; but once it isn't good for one and/or both of you, have the guts to move on.So, ask yourself the following questions:
Who have been my best mentors over the years?
Is there someone I would like to have as a mentor now?
Is there someone I would like to mentor now?
When and how will I start on my mentor quest? The time is now! Try it -- you will be glad you did! Chris King is a free agent, professional speaker, storyteller, writer, website creator / designer, and fitness instructor. Chris has what she calls a “Portfolio Career” --many careers at the same time. If you wonder if you could handle and love hvaing a “Portfolio Career” you will find a free assessment to take at http://www.Creativekeys.Net/portfoliocareertest.Htm Sign up for her eclectic E-newsletter, Portfolio Potpourri, at http://www.Freelanceliving.Com You will find Chris’ business website at http://www.Creativekeys.Biz
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